Course Offerings

We are currently offering the following courses online:
Click on a course name for a description:
Foundation Courses
FC2: The Ages and Stages of Development
FC3: Supporting Attachment
 
Developmental Disabilities (DD)
DD1: Introduction to Developmental Disabilities
DD2: Services for Children with Developmental Disabilities
DD3: Parenting a Child with Autism
DD4: Foster/Adoptive Parents as Effective Advocates
DD5: Raising Children with Developmental Disabilities: The Impact on Family Life
 
Kinship Foster Parent Support Group: Caring for Our Own
CFOO Meeting 1: Introduction to CFOO Kinship Foster Parent Support Group
CFOO Meeting 2: Assessing the Impact of the Children Living in My Home
CFOO Meeting 3: Looking at My Role in Achieving Permanency
CFOO Meeting 4: Assessing the Strengths and Needs of the Children in My Care
CFOO Meeting 5: Building on the Strengths and Meeting the Needs of the Children in My Care
CFOO Meeting 6: Preparing Children and Youth for the Future
CFOO Meeting 7: Understanding the Issues of Birth Parents
CFOO Meeting 8: Working with Birth Parents to Achieve Permanency for Their Children
CFOO Meeting 9: Networking and Moving Ahead
 
Caring for Children Who Have Experienced Trauma
Building a Safe Place
Dealing with Feelings and Behaviors
Connections and Healing
Becoming an Advocate
Taking Care of Yourself
 
Foster Father Support Group
The Roots Of Fathering
Foster Fathers and Their Impact on Childrens Well-being
Fathering Sons/Fathering Daughters
Foster Fathers and Case Planning
 
Core Issues in Child Sexual Abuse
CSA Meeting 1: Understanding and Discussing Child Sexual Abuse
CSA Meeting 2: Identifying Signs and Effects of Child Sexual Abuse
CSA Meeting 3: Understanding and Managing Behavior
 
Additional Courses
ADHD: A Survival Guide for Foster Parents
Defensive Parenting
Fear and Control
Human Sexuality
Introduction to Chemical Dependence
Positive Communication Skills for Foster Parents
More Positive Communication Skills for Foster Parents
Understanding the Impact of the Adoption and Safe Families Act (ASFA) on Shared Parenting
Maintaining Birth Family Connections Following Adoption
Dealing with Quibbling Siblings
Managing Personal Anger
Lying and Stealing
 
Download the Fall 2010 CDHS Online Foster Parent Training Course listing as a pdf file.
 

iLinc Orientation Session - Trainer: Judith Williamson

This mandatory orientation to the iLinc virtual classroom must be completed by all new iLinc users before they can register for and attend any other online course offerings. This orientation session lasts approximately 45 minutes and provides participants with an opportunity to make sure that their equipment is functioning properly before they start a class. The demonstration of the student palette and tools is designed to enable them to make the most of their online learning experience as well as to provide them with the technical vocabulary that they will need in order to communicate with instructors and technical support staff.

Dates and times offered (Choose one session only):
Wednesday, August 25, 2010     7:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m.
Wednesday, September 1, 2010    7:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m.
Wednesday, September 8, 2010    7:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m.
Wednesday, October 13, 2010     7:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m.
Wednesday, November 10, 2010    7:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m.


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Foster/Adoptive Parent Foundation Classes

We will offer two classes that provide certified foster parents with foundation information and skills required to work in partnership to achieve safety, well-being, and permanency for the children in their care.

 
FC2: The Ages and Stages of Development

This class provides foster parents with a key tool, the Child Development Guide, and the information necessary to identify the presence or absence of significant skills and abilities for at each age and stage of child development, to report important observations to the caseworker and other service providers, and select and use activities that will support a child's optimal development.

By the end of this class, participants will be able to:

  • Recognize the specific skills and abilities characteristic of each age and stage of child development.
  • Recognize possible indicators of developmental disabilities or delays that require further assessment.
  • Use the Child Development Guide to support the healthy development of the children in their care.
Date and time offered:
Tuesday, September 14, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m) – ID#: 191182


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FC3: Supporting Attachment

This class uses the Cycle of Attachment model to help foster parents understand the foundation process of children's emotional development and health. The behavioral clues that identify healthy attachments are highlighted. Foster parents learn how to select and use parenting behaviors that support emotional security and attachment in children, as well as how to identify behaviors that may signal unmet needs related to attachment.

By the end of this class, participants will be able to:

  • Explain the meaning of the term attachment.
  • Identify red flag behaviors that may signal unmet needs related to attachment.
  • Choose to help a child build and maintain attachments to her birth family.
  • Select and use parenting behaviors that will maintain and support a child's attachment to his birth family and his foster family.

Date and time offered:
Thursday, October 7, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) ID#: 191183


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Developmental Disabilities (DD) - Trainer: Diana Shultz

This five-part series is intended for foster/adoptive parents who are raising children with developmental disabilities and who have already taken the Internet course Ages and Stages of Development (or, alternatively, the COMPASS Session 3: Promoting Child Development module through in-person delivery) or who are already knowledgeable about child development. Since each part builds on the previous one, these offerings must be taken in sequence. Each training session lasts two hours and each session is offered once during the day and once in the evening so that participants can choose a time that is convenient for them. (Note: The Glossary of Terms, Child Development Guide, and Resource Guide will be mailed to registered participants before classes begin, and participants will be able to download additional handouts from the Foster Parent Training web site.

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DD Class 1: Introduction to Developmental Disabilities

Class 1 presents a general view of developmental disabilities as defined by the New York State Office of Mental Retardation and Developmental Disabilities.

By the end of this class, participants will be able to:

  • Use the Child Development Guide to identify developmental red flags.
  • Define the five categories of developmental disabilities, including mental retardation, cerebral palsy, autism, epilepsy, and neurological impairments (including the most common neurological impairments found in children in care: attention deficit disorder, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, and learning disabilities).
  • Appreciate the importance of early detection and diagnosis, classification, and services access.

Date and Time Offered:

Thursday, September 23, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191252
or
Tuesday, November 30, 2010 (10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191253


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DD Class 2: Services for Children with Developmental Disabilities

Class 2 introduces the services community involved with children with developmental disabilities and addresses the importance of the advocacy role with regard to accessing needed services in a timely and effective manner.

By the end of this class, participants will be able to:

  • Identify sources of national, state, and local level services provided for children with developmental disabilities.
  • Demonstrate familiarity with a glossary of terms and acronyms used in the field of developmental disabilities.

Date and Time Offered:

Thursday, September 30, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191256
or
Tuesday, December 7, 2010 (10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191258


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DD Class 3: Parenting a Child with Autism

Class 3 introduces important information for those parenting children with autism. According to AutismSpeaks, autism occurs in one out of 110 births. For those in foster care with autism, early diagnosis and treatment is paramount. Foster parents need to be able to recognize the signs and symptoms of autism to ensure this early diagnosis of very young children. They also need to ways to manage homelife with a child who has autism.

By the end of this class, participants will be able to:

  • define autism
  • discuss its possible causes
  • recognize the diagnosis
  • prepare to consult and work with professionals
  • list intervention strategies and practical ways to move forward after diagnosis

Date and Time Offered:

Thursday, October 14, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191260
or
Tuesday, December 14, 2010 (10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191259

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DD Class 4: Foster/Adoptive Parents as Effective Advocates

Foster/adoptive parents may find themselves in the position of having to advocate for children with diagnosed or suspected developmental disabilities. As they confront multiple services agencies as part of their role as advocates for the children in their care, such interactions can sometimes be intimidating and frustrating. Workshop participants will benefit from acquiring a better understanding of their individual negotiating styles and will be exposed to a model that will allow them to explore and refine their own negotiating skills as they practice using them in example interactions with service providers.

By the end of this class, participants will be able to:
  • Appreciate the importance of the advocacy role with regard to accessing services in a timely and effective fashion.
  • Identify the key qualities of an effective advocate.
  • Differentiate between aggressive, passive aggressive, and assertive behaviors used during services advocacy.
  • Practice using assertive responses as a way to enhance their advocacy role.

Date and Time Offered:

Thursday, October 28, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191254
or
Tuesday, December 21, 2010 (10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191255


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DD Class 5: Raising Children with Developmental Disabilities: The Impact on Family Life

Class 4 addresses the challenges of raising a child with developmental disabilities. Family relations, the many ways that caretakers and any other children in the family are affected, and the heightened levels of stress that the entire family often experiences are discussed in depth, and the importance of effective family stress management, and networking are addressed.

By the end of this class, participants will be able to:
  • Identify the additional sources of stress associated with the care of children with developmental disabilities.
  • Recognize signs of stress in themselves and other family members.
  • Utilize stress management techniques that can help lower family stress levels.
  • Appreciate the importance of networking with other families raising children with developmental disabilities.

Date and Time Offered:

Thursday, November 18, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191517
or
Tuesday, December 28, 2010 (10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191518


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Kinship Foster Parent Support Group: Caring for Our Own (CFOO) - Trainer: Wendy Neilson
Caring for Our Own (CFOO) is a nine-meeting, educational support group for kinship foster parents. Participants, receive parenting tips, learn how to help the children in their care to better manage their behaviors, and are introduced to strategies that can help them to develop effective relationships with birth parents and agency/county staff. They benefit from receiving helpful knowledge, understanding, and support from the other kinship foster parents and learn that they are not alone in taking on the responsibilities of kinship foster parenting.

This offering is intended for and available to only those individuals who are currently providing foster care for one or more children to whom they are related or with whom they have close family ties. In order that they will be in a position to receive the maximum benefit from this offering, it is strongly recommended that kinship foster parents register for and attend all nine meetings.

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CFOO Meeting 1:
Introduction to CFOO Kinship Foster Parent Support Group

This meeting provides an opportunity for kinship caregivers and the trainer to get acquainted with each other and share a little about personal kinship experiences.


Date and Time Offered:
Monday, September 13, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) ID#: 191185

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CFOO Meeting 2:
Assessing the Impact of the Children Living in My Home

This meeting provides the participants with an opportunity to assess the immediate impact of having children live in their homes, and to assess their ability to meet the needs of the children in their care.


Date and Time Offered:
Monday, September 20, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) ID#: 191186

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CFOO Meeting 3:
Looking at My Role in Achieving Permanency

This meeting provides kinship foster parents with an overview of reunification and adoption and identifies ways they can support permanency planning (children leaving foster care). It will also provide participants with the opportunity to assess the strengths and needs of the members of their immediate household and of their extended family members.


Date and Time Offered:
Monday, September 27, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) ID#: 191187

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CFOO Meeting 4:
Assessing the Strengths and Needs of the Children in My Care

This meeting provides the participants with an opportunity to assess the immediate impact of having children live in their homes, and to assess their ability to meet the needs of the children in their care.


Date and Time Offered:
Monday, October 4, 2010 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) ID#: 191188

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CFOO Meeting 5:
Building on the Strengths and Meeting the Needs of the Children in My Care

This meeting continues to help kinship foster parents examine the behaviors of the children living in their homes, to identify methods of managing the behaviors, and to identify and access needed services.


Date and Time Offered:
Monday, October 18, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) ID#: 191189

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CFOO Meeting 6:
Preparing Children and Youth for the Future

This meeting assists kinship foster parents in understanding their role and responsibilities in the education of the children in their care and in preparing youth for independent living.


Date and Time Offered:
Monday, November 1, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) ID#: 191190

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CFOO Meeting 7:
Understanding the Issues of Birth Parents

This meeting provides an opportunity for kinship foster parents to examine the challenges birth parents face. Participants will gain a better understanding of birth parent issues and how those issues interplay with the kinship foster parent’s own issues. The nature of drug addiction in birth parents and how the addiction affects their ability to provide children with permanency (help their children leave foster care) will be explained and explored.


Date and Time Offered:
Monday, November 15, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) ID#: 191191

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CFOO Meeting 8:
Working with Birth Parents to Achieve Permanency for Their Children

This meeting examines how kinship foster parents can redefine their relationship with birth parents, in order to ensure children’s physical safety and emotional well-being, and to support birth parents’ efforts to achieve permanency (help their children leave foster care).


Date and Time Offered:
Monday, November 22, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) ID#: 191192

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CFOO Meeting 9:
Networking and Moving Ahead

This meeting provides kinship foster parents with the opportunity to complete a self- assessment of their ability to meet long-term needs of the children in their care. Participants will develop a family plan which they should later share with their caseworkers for the purpose of planning for the child (ren).


Date and Time Offered:
Monday, November 29, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) ID#: 191193

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Caring for Children Who Have Experienced Trauma - Trainer: Wendy Neilson
This five-part series can help foster/adoptive parents understand the link between trauma and their children’s often baffling behavior, feeling and attitudes. It gives foster/adoptive parents practical tools to help their children move forward from their traumatic pasts, to recognize and reduce the impact of their children’s traumas on themselves, and to seek useful support from others.



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Building a Safe Place

This class will help participants understand the difference between physical and psychological safety in children and adolescents who have experienced trauma. Participants will also be introduced to the concept of the safety message and how to deliver it effectively as well as ways to help children cope with trauma reminders.


Date and Time Offered:
Tuesday, October 19, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) ID#: 191233

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Dealing with Feelings and Behaviors

This class will introduce participants to the Cognitive Triangle, and the impact of trauma on children’s thoughts, feelings and behaviors. Participants will also be introduced to techniques for helping traumatized children understand and control their emotional and behavioral reactions.


Date and Time Offered:
Tuesday, November 2, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) ID#: 191235

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Connections and Healing

This class will explain how children form their identities through their attachments and connections taking into account the intergenerational nature of trauma. Participants will also explore why it’s important for children to talk about their traumatic experiences, and how foster/adoptive parents can support children in this process.


Date and Time Offered:
Tuesday, November 16, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) ID#: 191236

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Becoming an Advocate

This class will enhance participants’ ability to share a trauma-informed perspective with caseworkers and other adults on the child’s team. Participants will be empowered in their role as advocates and recognize when trauma-related problems require the help of trauma-informed professionals. Participants will also receive information about what they can expect from a trauma-informed therapist.


Date and Time Offered:
Tuesday, November 23, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) ID#: 191237

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Taking Care of Yourself

This class will review the definitions and warning signs of compassion fatigue and of secondary traumatic stress. Participants will be able to identify specific self-care techniques that can help prevent secondary traumatic stress.


Date and Time Offered:
Tuesday, November 30, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) ID#: 191238

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Foster Father Support Group – Trainer: Jack Fuentes
You are about to embark on an adventure–one that will take you into the hearts, minds, and lives of men who want to care for children who have experienced abuse and/or neglect in a nurturing way. The adventure may lead you through hopes and fears, laughter and tears, as well as memorable relationships and experiences. You will deepen your knowledge of meeting children's needs, assuring their well-being, understanding your role in case planning, and hopefully deepen your knowledge of yourself along the way.

As a result of this journey participants will be able to:
  • Clarify the relationship between their fathers and their own style of fathering.
  • Share their visions of the father they choose to be.
  • Explore different cultural styles of fathering.
  • Explore the unique roles of fathering daughters and fathering sons.
  • Clarify the role of foster fathers in case planning.
  • Practice important communication skills, particularly active listening and reflecting.
This journey is designed for foster/adoptive fathers.
The Roots of Fathering
Date and Time Offered:
Wednesday, September 15, 2010 (7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191194


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Foster Fathers and Their Impact on Childrens Well-being
Date and Time Offered:
Wednesday, October 20, 2010 (7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.)– ID#: 191195


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Fathering Sons/Fathering Daughters
Date and Time Offered:
Monday, November 8, 2010 (7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.)– ID#: 191196


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Foster Fathers and Case Planning
Date and Time Offered:
Monday, December 6, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.)– ID#: 191197


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Core Issues in Child Sexual Abuse

These on-line classes provide foster parents with the foundation skills and information required to work in partnership to help children who’ve been sexually abused to achieve safety, well-being and permanence. A certificate of completion will be provided.

Prerequisites: Completing a course in Human Sexuality

CSA Meeting 1: Understanding Child Sexual Abuse - Instructor: Diana Shultz

Foster parents need to vent their feelings about child sexual abuse before they intervene in a child’s life where it has occurred. They also need to know facts related to child sexual abuse. This class provides that forum. Foster parents need to build relationships that free children from adult roles. Building these depends on recognizing needs and the behaviors that stem from them.

By the end of this class and video-viewing, foster parents will be able to:

  • Describe the incidence and effects of child sexual abuse
  • Identify their emotions toward the child, the person who abuses the child and the non-abusive partner
  • Identify the emotions, needs and behaviors of children who are sexually abused
  • Describe the needs and behaviors of the person who abuses and those of the non-abusing partner

Date and Time Offered:

Tuesday, October 29, 2010 (10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191275
or
Tuesday, September 21, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191276


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CSA Meeting 2: Identifying Signs and Effects of Child Sexual Abuse

Foster parents need to see children’s behavior as an expression of underlying needs. They also need to know the range of behaviors that often follow child sexual abuse. This class helps foster parents recognize signs and better meet underlying needs, establishing a basis on which to help the child manage the behaviors.This class also examines the relationships in families where sexual abuse has occurred and the role reversals which children and adults often experience.

By the end of this class and video-viewing, foster parents will be able to:

  • Describe the relationships in families where sexual abuse occurred
  • Identify sexual and non-sexual signs of child sexual abuse in younger children
  • Identify sexual and non-sexual signs of child sexual abuse in older children
  • Describe how sexual abuse affects the child’s expression of needs

Date and Time Offered:

Tuesday, November 5, 2010 (10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191277
or
Tuesday, September 28, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191278


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CSA Meeting 3: Managing Behavior - Instructor: Diana Shultz

Foster parents need to highlight the special strengths of children who have been sexually abused. This class helps foster parents identify these strengths and recognize the child’s needs. This class will also look how sexual abuse affects the way needs and strengths get expressed.

Foster parents need to recognize that children who’ve been sexually abuse have experienced a double trauma: that of the abuse and that of placement. Foster parents need to intervene when the child displays challenging behaviors. This class helps foster parents plan ways to meet the child’s needs, while managing behaviors related to the traumas of sexual abuse and placement.

By the end of this class, foster parents will be able to:

  • Identify the double trauma children who’ve been sexually abused experience when placed in care
  • Recognize the relationship between the child’s needs, behaviors and the foster parent’s response
  • Identify strengths in the child’s expression of need
  • List strategies to meet the needs and manage the behaviors of children who’ve been sexually abused

Date and Time Offered:

Friday, November 12, 2010 (10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191285
or
Tuesday, October 12, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191287


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Additional Courses
 
ADHD: A Survival Guide for Foster Parents – Trainer: Helen Shin
Focusing on how Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder affects children and their foster families, the first half of this workshop will provide a basic overview of ADHD including key symptoms, possible causes, and diagnostic procedure. The second half will describe a combination of interventions, including academic modification and medication, that can possibly be used to help children successfully manage the impact of ADHD. The workshop will conclude with a explanation of practical, easy to use parenting strategies that will build on the strengths of children with ADHD.
Date and Times Offered (Choose one time slot):
Wednesday, October 6, 2010 (10:00 a.m. - 12:00 pm) – ID#: 191240
or
Wednesday, October 6, 2010 (7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.)– ID#: 191241


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Defensive Parenting - Trainer: Diana Shultz
Foster parents need to recognize tbe politics of effective fostering. Risks within their role present challenges to parenting, especially in the areas of discipline, crisis, and stress management. Their vulnerable role places them at risk of having allegations of abuse/neglect placed against them. This course offering will raise awareness of these risks, normalize the CPS investigation, and present tools that can be used to practice defensive parenting.
Date and Times Offered (Choose one date/time slots):
Thursday, December 23, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191297
or
Wednesday, December 15, 2010 (10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191298


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Fear and Control - Trainer: Diana Shultz
Participants will gain a better understanding of the dynamics of fear and control issues and how these issues can become barriers to working in partnership with parents of children in foster care and agency staff. This course also helps the participants to recognize their own fears, as well as those experienced by the parents of children in foster care, the children themselves, and the caseworker involved. Participants will also learn how to identify effective strategies for addressing issues of fear and control.
Date and Times Offered (Choose one date/time slots):
Monday, September 27, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191512
or
Wednesday, November 3, 2010 (10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191513


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Human Sexuality (Two-Part Offering) – Trainer: Diana Shultz
Foster parents need to find ways to be both comfortable and well-versed when discussing challenging topics with children and youth placed in their homes. These topics often include "the birds and the bees," sexuality, sexual behaviors, and sexual abuse. This two-part course offering provides an introduction to these dialogues that is knowledge-based and practice-oriented. Participants should have completed an introductory course in normal child development before registering for this course offering and must register for and attend both parts.
Date and Times Offered (Choose both date/time slots):
Human Sexuality Part 1:
Tuesday, September 7, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191310
or
Tuesday, September 14, 2010 (10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191312


Human Sexuality Part 2:
Thursday, September 9, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191311
or
Thursday, September 16, 2010 (10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191313

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Introduction to Chemical Dependence - Trainer: Wendy Neilson
This meeting provides information about alcohol and other drugs. Participants will be able to describe the difference between use, abuse, dependence and addiction. An overview of key concepts including different types of drugs and their effects, the two types of chemical dependence, and common treatment modalities will be discussed.
Date and Times Offered (Choose one time slot):
Thursday, October 14, 2010 (10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191242
or
Thursday, November 4, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191244

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Positive Communication Skills for Foster Parents – Trainer: Helen Shin
Many patient and loving foster parents find that they yell, nag, or criticize more often than they want to when dealing with the challenging behaviors of the children in their care. Based on the bestselling book “How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk”, this workshop will help foster parents to avoid the common communication pitfalls and to make small but powerful changes in the words they use every day to:
  • help children talk about their feelings instead of acting them out
  • express own anger or frustration without being hurtful
  • engage cooperation

Date and Times Offered (Choose one time slot):
Wednesday, November 3, 2010 (10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191301
or
Wednesday, November 3, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191303


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More Positive Communication Skills for Foster Parents (AM) – Trainer: Helen Shin
By popular demand, foster parents can explore even more techniques from the bestselling book “How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk”. This workshop will focus on how foster parents can:

  • Encourage autonomy
  • Use praise effectivel
  • Free children from getting stuck in “roles”

This workshop will provide foster/adoptive parents with a guideline for talking about loss and specific things they can say and do to help children at different ages to gain a full understanding of their placement reasons.

Identify a child's specific intelligence, and offers suggestions for creating “teachable moments” with a child.
Date and Time Offered:
Wednesday, December 1, 2010 (10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191305
or
Wednesday, December 1, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191306

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Understanding the Impact of the Adoption and Safe Families Act (ASFA) on Shared Parenting – Trainer: Wendy Neilson
This meeting helps the participants explore the impact of the 1997 Adoption and Safe Families Act (ASFA) on their ability to share the responsibility of parenting. Participants will learn about ASFA’s strict time lines with regard to achievement of permanency, and they will gain a better understanding of how concurrent planning influences the work of partnership building between foster parents and the parents of children in foster care.
Date and Time Offered:
Wednesday, December 1, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191299


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Maintaining Birth Family Connections Following Adoption – Trainer: Helen Shin
One of the factors that most foster parents have to consider when adopting the children in their care is what kind and how much contact there will be between the children and their birth family members. This workshop will help the foster parents to explore:

  • The impact of openness on the children’s well-being
  • Talking honestly with the children about their birth family
  • Choosing types of contacts
  • Ways to make & maintain boundarie
Date and Time Offered:
Monday, November 22, 2010 (10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191245
or
Monday, November 22, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191246

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Dealing with Quibbling Siblings – Trainer: Helen Shin
Based on the bestselling book “Siblings Without Rivalry: How to Help Your Children Live Together So You Can Live Too”, this workshop will challenge the idea that constant, unpleasant conflict among siblings is natural and unavoidable. Parents will learn how to avoid such explosive situations as comparing, assigning roles, or taking sides and instead promote cooperation with practical and easy-to-use techniques.

Date and Time Offered:
Monday, December 20, 2010 (10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191247
or
Monday, December 20, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191248

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Managing Personal Anger – Trainer: Diana Shultz
This interactive class looks at the particular behaviors of children that often stimulate the foster/adoptive parent’s anger. As a result of participating in this class, foster/adoptive parents will be able to recognize the source of their anger, identify other feelings that may underlie this anger and employ appropriate methods to express their anger.

Date and Time Offered:
Wednesday, September 15, 2010 (10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191515
or
Wednesday, September 29, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191307
or
Monday, November 1, 2010 (10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191516
or
Wednesday, December 8, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191514

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Lying and Stealing – Trainer: Diana Shultz
As a result of attending this 2 hour iLinc training, foster parents will be able to clarify their values regarding lying and stealing and identify reasons children engage in these behaviors. Through practice simulations, participants will be able to respond appropriately to children who lie and/or steal and make plans to prevent these behaviors.

Date and Time Offered:
Tuesday, November 23, 2010 (7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191309
or
Thursday, December 30, 2010 (10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.) – ID#: 191308

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